Thursday 9 August 2012
Handwriting and Graphology Analysis: Compatability through the eyes of handwriting anal...
Handwriting and Graphology Analysis: Compatability through the eyes of handwriting anal...: What is compatibility? makes individuals compatible? Is it their set of beliefs? their world view? can differences really be bridged? Is it ...
Compatability through the eyes of handwriting analysis
What is compatibility? makes individuals compatible? Is it their set of beliefs? their world view? can differences really be bridged? Is it possible to really see another point of view? can an unhappy relationship find the tools to become happy? The gift of graphology, or handwriting analysis, is that it enables the individual/s to see their relationship with another, as though peering at a mirror. A relationship, after all, is not so much about differences but the celebration of differences. Within that reality is the truth, that not everything in a relationship is personal. Yes, it may feel personal, yet few of us, go out of our way to not get along with another. Few of us deliberately ensure the failure of a relationship and most grieve when a relationship does end. Handwriting analysis, allows individuals to see that the failure of a relationship is not necessarily due to differences, but a lack of knowledge and acceptance of an individuals wiring. It can also bring to light that the bridge of differences is too far and too wide. Accepting the polarity and allowing a relationship to end may save much heartache and anger and the temptation to rip ourselves and the other person to shreds.
So - you are in a serious relationship. Both of you have decided to commit to each other. Everything is going smoothly, each of you are giving and taking proportionately. One, two, three, four or five years down the track things are not so good as they once were. Yes, the love is there but rather than be the active force in your relationship, it has become the background music - like the music one hears in a dental office. Productively, it is ignored. How can graphology help you? What can it add into your relationship?
Let me demonstrate.
The handwriting above suggests a person who likes to relate to people and despite wanting intimacy, pulls back. The writer has trust issues and unresolved issues with a male caregiver from their youth. These unresolved issues affect their intimate relationships to present date. To cope, the writer, withdraws from obligations or commitments or at the very least wriggle out of them. I must add, it is not deliberate on the writer's part. Life has taught them to be cautious to committing. Obvious signs may be to become wary of committing to a monogamous relationship. If committed, may struggle to be able to commit to the most mundane of things. The writer, despite wanting companionship, struggles to give of himself and instead may come across as aloof.
If you or your partner have similar handwriting does that mean, you are doomed to fail in an intimate relationship and be denied such happiness? No. Being aware of an individuals wiring, assists both the person writing in such a manner and the person they are involved with.
Individuals with such handwriting, can NOT have grenades thrown into their cave. They need space to think clearly and nagging or too much communication make such individuals feel drained and more importantly, they feel claustrophobic. The writer needs to be communicated succinctly and with little drama and then allow the conversation to be left alone. Giving the writer space enables the writer to sort through their feelings and shift personal experiences and bridge steps of trust to their intimates.
So - you are in a serious relationship. Both of you have decided to commit to each other. Everything is going smoothly, each of you are giving and taking proportionately. One, two, three, four or five years down the track things are not so good as they once were. Yes, the love is there but rather than be the active force in your relationship, it has become the background music - like the music one hears in a dental office. Productively, it is ignored. How can graphology help you? What can it add into your relationship?
Let me demonstrate.
If you or your partner have similar handwriting does that mean, you are doomed to fail in an intimate relationship and be denied such happiness? No. Being aware of an individuals wiring, assists both the person writing in such a manner and the person they are involved with.
Individuals with such handwriting, can NOT have grenades thrown into their cave. They need space to think clearly and nagging or too much communication make such individuals feel drained and more importantly, they feel claustrophobic. The writer needs to be communicated succinctly and with little drama and then allow the conversation to be left alone. Giving the writer space enables the writer to sort through their feelings and shift personal experiences and bridge steps of trust to their intimates.
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